Do you have a chip on your shoulder? Does your partner, friend or spouse? How two painful events at age 3 and 7 created the story in my head that shaped my life shadowed in doubt, fear, lack of self-love and created a pattern of self-destructive behaviour. What happens to us early in childhood can follow us for the rest of our lives...and as long as we believe the story in our head, it can cause a lot of pain and suffering. Listen now.